I love erotic stories with dubious consent and non-consent. These have always been my hottest fantasies. So, of course they feature heavily in my writing.
There’s a few things I’d like to say as I start to publish more stories which feature dubious consent and non-consent.
Most importantly
Please always base your sexual and romantic interactions on a foundation of respect, equality, safety and positive enthusiastic consent.
There is a gulf between erotic fantasy and reality. I find that the skill to navigate this divide is a crucial characteristic of a safe and consensual play partner.
My stories exist on a spectrum of consent
Some stories I describe as ‘consensual’. I only put this byline on a story if I have actually made a deliberate attempt to actually have the characters practise good consent. Even so, please don’t take it as a manual. It is still fiction.
The rest of my stories exist somewhere on the non-consent spectrum. In some stories, the characters believe everything is consensual from start to finish, even though the stories are full of things that no-one should ever, ever do. Others are darker still.
Why do I write non-consensual fantasy?
The basic answer is that I find it hot. I have some horrible fantasies about terrible people doing terrible things. I don’t want to do those things or have them done to me. I don’t want those things to ever happen to a real person.
But, like many people of all genders, I still find fantasising about them hot.
A long time ago, I thought this made me a bad person. And then I discovered that many healthy, mature people of all genders have the same and similar fantasies as me.
I’m really glad to be able to share my stories with you. I find it personally emancipating and fulfilling — and it is something that a younger Pixie could never have done!
Intersection with politics
I identify as non-binary, I use they/she pronouns, and I am somewhere in the bisexual and sapiosexual sphere. I am an advocate of all LGBTQ+ people and for all Indigenous people, Black people and People of Colour. I will fight to my dying breath for equality for all women and afab people, especially less powerful groups such as trans women, sex workers, Women of Colour and disabled women. I will always support women’s right to choose what happens to our bodies.
Sometimes my stories touch upon elements which are misogynistic or founded in the degradation of women. For example, my stories with forced breeding and forced lactation fantasies or stories with enslavement themes.
I know plenty of other women and people of all genders enjoy these stories. That is perfectly healthy.
Nevertheless, I encourage all my readers to work for a world in which misogyny, racism, queerphobia and transphobia are historical concepts. Right now, in the western world where I live, trans rights, abortion rights and sex workers are under attack. I encourage everyone to do what you can to make the world a safe and fair place for everyone.
Finally
Please feel free to pick and choose from among my writing. If I ever write something that makes you go ‘ewww’, please don’t read it. But do please keep coming back for the writing that is your thing!
For example, sometimes my stories have incest themes. Some people find this really hot. For some people, it’s just not their thing. I try to clearly label in advance what themes appear in each story. Hopefully this works for people.
Stay safe out there, be wicked, have fun. Write to me if you need about anything I’ve said here or elsewhere.
Much love,
❤️ Pixie
Pixie Isobella 